An Argosy of Two Rogers Boys
By Ed Mauget
Robert Warren Parry (that’s “Parry” with
an “a”) has been a continuous friend since December of 1950.
That’s when my family moved from Hoffman Ave, near Rogers, to
Jackson Ave, near Minnehaha. It was a move from Hamilton to Cooper,
in terms of elementary schools. My first memory of him was of big
redhead kid wearing glasses and a brown coat, playing kickball. We
hit it off pretty well, since we were both interested in toy trains,
model airplanes, and … blowing things up. Well, the latter was
later, I guess.
I used to spend time at his house -- not the
reverse -- because his place was more fun. Bob's house was located
by the park and the rocky wooded “hills”. I wrote about Bob’s
mother last month. She was part of why I hung around so much.
I didn’t always treat Bob right. I remember
calling him to arrange to come to his house, only to run into other
kids on the way, playing with them, and eventually standing Bob up.
I remember thinking that this wasn’t right, but I still did it.
Bob, on the other hand never showed much anger at anybody or any
situation. He just got quiet, or shook his head at injustice.
Sometimes he quietly got even.
We graduated Cooper school together and then
completed four years at Rogers. So far this story is unremarkable
except that I practically crashed the Parry family for those years.
By graduation time, I was ready to see the World. I finagled a
scholarship to Michigan State University, worked to get some
airfare, and lit out of Spokane. Bob went the normal route,
attending, and graduating from WSU. We corresponded and got together
on the increasingly rare times that I returned to Spokane.
I was enthralled with East Lansing and decided
to spend summer there. The campus is at its prettiest in summer. By
then I lived in off-campus housing in a room above a private house.
Bob needed to take a German course to fulfill a degree foreign
language requirement. MSU had a crash German course where they poked
a year of German into your head in one summer. Bob came to East
Lansing that summer to take German and live in that room with me.
Thus, I can say that Bob and I were roommates in college.
The kid kept speaking in German, however.
At the end of that summer, Rogers classmate,
Jim Richardson, drove to East Lansing to take Bob back to Spokane.
All three of us went down to Indianapolis to the National Drag
Races. I remember Jim got stopped by a hostile cop in Ohio. He got
stopped again in Indiana, but that particular officer was only
interested in the car. Different state cultures, I guess. We said
our goodbyes. I took a Greyhound to Detroit afterward to visit my
new girlfriend, and another back to East Lansing. The junior year
started.
Later, I lived in a mobile home outside East
Lansing. Bob and Jim came to visit from Spokane on the way to I-can’t-remember-where.
We all went to Detroit to visit my girlfriend. Then Bob and Jim went
on their way. We’re talking about a 4000-mile round-trip jaunt for
Jim and Bob here. Kids.
Bob graduated from WSU with a B.S. in physics.
He landed an engineering job at Pratt and Whitney, designing fuel
cells for Apollo. By then, I was again living in that room that Bob
and I earlier had shared. It had no lock – it was wide open. One
June weekend I went to Chicago with a friend and his wife. When I
returned, there was a note from Bob on the chest-of-drawers. He and
a U-Haul had detoured through East Lansing on the way to his new
job. I didn’t know he was coming, so missed him. One good thing
did happen that week – I met my wife, Carey.
In November, NY had its first great power
blackout. A week later I hooked a plane ride with a rich friend to
White Plains. Bob drove there to get me. We spent Thanksgiving near
St. Johnsbury, Vermont, with a coworker of Bob’s. Not bad travel
for a couple of Rogers brats.
It took me six years to graduate from MSU. I
served six months Army active duty, I went part-time when funds were
low, and once dropped out for six months to obtain Michigan
residency.
Bob's mom helped fund the lean periods.
When I graduated, I went to San Jose, CA, to
work for IBM for 34 years. I was often sent to the Mid-Hudson Valley
for training (the Vatican of IBM). Once, I drove to East Hartford to
see Bob and meet his new wife and newer child. I visited them at
least twice. They showed me around Connecticut and
Massachusetts..
By 1976 they were living in Pennsylvania Amish
country. I was in DC on business, so hopped over there to visit
them. This time they showed me Paradise, Blueball, Bird In Hand, and
Intercourse – all Amish towns in PA.
In 1978 Carey and I moved to North Carolina.
Bob called me in California before the move and said that they had
just moved to NC by coincidence.
Our families continue to live less than 200
miles apart in NC. We visit one-another every couple of months
nowadays. Bob has a vision problem in one eye and has to check in
with the Duke University Eye clinic periodically. We put them up
when they are here for that. Other times we visit them. Lately
airfare from our airport to Spokane is cheaper, so they’ve stored
their car in our driveway during a trip to Spokane or two. They
were trapped in Spokane for a month during 911. We watched their car
for them.
August 31st, I’ll visit Spokane and stay with
Bob’s mother, Mary, whom I wrote about last month. Bob took his
Spokane trip in June. Bob and I have almost fifty-four years of
friendship. Over a quarter century of it has been spent in NC, 2000
miles from Spokane. Remarkable for a couple of Rogers kids from the
Minnehaha district. That's an enduring friendship. Bob
certainly qualifies as a Rogers First Mate.
-Ed |