It's about time that I finally give tribute to the ONE person who
certainly was the most significant and had the most memorable
influence on me during my Pirate period: KEN KELLING. From our first
semester as freshmen, when we met and together conspired skits and
other mini-dramas in the Introduction to Drama class, to this day,
when we regularly touch base by e-mail, I've known Ken longer than
I've known my wife, Nancy, and we've been married over 40 years.
Drama was a good class for a couple of freshman goof-offs to have
time to develop skits and such, along with generally gabbing about
the newly discovered wonders of Rogers. Roy Magden, our teacher,
would tell us the type of thespian activity we needed to develop,
then he left us alone to sit in the auditorium seats and plan. I
still have a MEMSHOT of Ken during the time we were rehearsing for
the class final, the language arts speech and drama competition. How
many times I listened to and watched Ken, sitting on the edge of the
stage, doing his "Sandy McNass sat on the curbstone of
Jefferson grade school," humorous reading. He played the part
well, but like me, drama was not our calling.
When I got bounced by PE coach Fred Brown (to be revealed in a
future installment) into cross country my sophomore year, it was Ken
that took me under his wing, or should I say foot, to help me
through the challenges those first practices of running through the
Rogers neighborhoods. Ken, you see, was already a one-year veteran,
having been a freshman harrier and having the advantage of two older
brothers mentor him. Long distance running was new to me--I didn't
really like it. I also didn't like doing it on hot, sunny, September
Spokane days. Ken's support and friendship kept me at it, an
activity that's still a major part of my life.
Ken, again like the three brothers before him, was a devoted member
of the Hillyard Booster Club. The club's "three cardinal
virtues" were "clean living, crime prevention, community
service." Good enough for me. I was tired of and felt too old
to continue Boy Scouting. Being with a good bunch of guys was
appealing enough. I often wonder how different my life would be if I
hadn't been involved, almost totally, with cross country, track and
the HBC. Those were not merely high school activities--those
provided lessons of life and associations that remain invaluable.
It seemed that Ken was always around. He'd drop by my house every
morning before school, having walked all the way from "Dogtown"
to my house two blocks from Rogers, cheerfully chatting as I
finished my shredded wheat and Spokesman Review. We were in Spanish
class together con la senora suprema Pence, hence the nickname
"Pepe." That became his nickname with fellow track rats,
those unschooled in Spanish thinking it was "Peppy," which
also fit him. There were countless laps around the track that we
distance runners did under Coach Walters, who's favorite training
regimen was "440s." Ken always seemed to run the same
steady pace, same serious, determined look on his face, never a
complainer, just keeping chugging along, a genuine "I'll do
it," guy. His running style and attitude reflected his
character.
Ken introduced me in July, 1958 (I still have the scorecard) to golf
at the relatively new Esmeralda course. He remains a serious golfer.
I probably have golfed only a half-dozen times since. In this, we
went our separate ways.
After Rogers, Ken tried enlisting into the Army. Thanks to Chiquita
Banana, he made it in ...barely. Being underweight the day he tried
to enlist, the recruiter told him to eat some bananas to gain enough
weight to qualify by Army standards. Being a good soldier-to-be, he
followed orders, was sworn in and spent his duty assignment in
Korea. The Army taught him the skills of surveying, which led to a
long, 40-year career of construction management. Retirement is just
around the corner as this is written. I went off to WSU and a
teaching life in Oregon. Ken, the most loyal friend anyone could
ever hope for, always kept in touch. He kept me from ever wondering,
"Whatever happened to Ken Kelling?"
Ken grew up, raised by a mom that was a Mothers Day role model, in
that part of Hillyard known as "Dogtown." He's the
youngest of 6 kids. The Kelling kids are all very close. All have
married well. All are steady. All have contributed to society,
raised families, remained honest hard-workers. Quite a tribute to
their late mom, I'd say. A place like Dogtown isn't the kind of
place that such successful and solid people usually come from
according to sociologists. But they beat the odds and earned the
right to be damn proud of being "kids from Dogtown."
Ken was probably one of the smallest kids in our class, physically.
He's not one to whine, feel sorry for himself or complain about
things that can't be helped, but I suspect he got picked on more
than once. Smaller guys often develop "small man
attitudes." Not him. If attributes such as honesty, loyalty,
doing one's duty, compassion for others, tenacity, hardworking,
unassuming mean anything, and they certainly do, then he's like the
title of that song from our era, "Big Man
Yesterday"...yesterday, today, and hopefully many tomorrows.
- Wyatt Newman
Margaret
Funk Crofoot
Margaret Funk Crofoot passed last week (May 2004), in Ventura
California, of an illness that she dealt with most of her life. She
is survived by her Parents, Mr. and Mrs. George Funk, who still
reside on East Joseph in Spokane, husband Charlie Crofoot of
Ventura, daughters Tracy of Gardnerville, NV, Kary, Ventura, a son
Charlie of Ventura. Sisters, Gladys and Gloria of Yakima, WA.,
Brothers, Charlie of California, Donald of Mead, WA., and Gary of
Spokane.
Some of Margaret's fondest memories were the trips she made back to
Spokane for the 1960 Rogers High School reunions. She loved seeing
and visiting all the old gang from High School and northeast
Spokane.
Margaret loved the days she spent at John R. Rogers, never
forgetting any of the old gang there. She could remember nearly
everyone's name in our class 40 years after graduation. I doubt
Margaret ever said a unkind word to anyone during her entire life.
She loved people, art and traveling. I grew up with Margaret in our
neighborhood, Arlington grade school, the years at Rogers and the
years following graduation. She married Charlie Crofoot of Mead, WA.
Several years after graduating, Charlie became a Building Contractor
and they moved to the coast of Washington then on to California.
They would make trips to Spokane at least once and sometimes several
times a year.
The art education she received while attending Rogers was an asset
to Margaret during her entire life. She often spoke of the art
instruction she received from Mr. Aller and Mr. Snyder and what
super teachers they were. She constructed art projects for many
years while in California and attended craft shows to sell her
items. Margaret and Charlie loved to take their camper to various
places and spent a lot of time camping around Baja California.
Margaret loved to laugh, and many of our classmates will remember
her fondly she was a very nice lady. We will miss her at forthcoming
reunions.
Margaret's parents, George and Agnes Funk, are still living at home
and would surely appreciate anyone calling them for information or
to give them condolences. (Ed note: Search for George Funk in
Spokane, using www.switchboard.com).